The cause of
death was suicide.
When she was
diagnosed four years ago with Alzheimer's, she said she would end her
life while she still could when the disease became too debilitating
to continue.
After years of
expensive medical treatments, she stopped all care six months ago and
decided it was time to die.
She bought a
copy of “The Peaceful Pill Handbook” and chose to take her life
with pentobarbital.
The family held
a service for her two days before her death.
“Instead of a
funeral service, the family met with her last Sunday, a group
gathering where we all shared our memories of her and our thoughts
and feelings,” said her husband, Darly Bem, 75, also a nationally
recognized psychologist. “Everyone was aware that Tuesday was the
deadline.”
After spending
her last day with Daryl, during which the couple went for a long
walk, watched a movie and had dinner, Sandra took the drug at about 7
p.m. Tuesday and died in her sleep.
Thanks are due to the Pittsburgh
Post-Gazette for having the
courage to publish this information. I suspect some readers were not
pleased.